5 Reasons Every Young Family Needs An Estate Plan

If you are part of a young family that is embarking on the journey of building a life you love, we know that these are some of the most magical, joyous, chaotic, and special days you’ll ever have. Whether your family consists of just you and your spouse so far, or if you’ve made some little additions, you may feel like you’re just getting started with this thing we call adulthood. 

However, you probably don’t realize just how much you actually have; do you know what would happen if you were to suddenly pass away or become incapacitated? Who would care for your children or your pets? Who would pay your bills? Who would have access to your accounts and legal information? Who would tell your doctors what kind of medical treatment you want to avoid?

In this, the busiest season of your life, estate planning is understandably not at the forefront of your mind – but it should be. While it may seem daunting to consider matters of inheritance and asset distribution at a young age, the reality is that unexpected tragedies can occur at any time, no matter how healthy you are, making it essential to have a plan in place to help those you love navigate them according to your wishes. 

From safeguarding minor children to protecting assets and ensuring healthcare wishes are honored, an estate plan serves as a blueprint for life’s uncertainties and ensuring that the needs of your loved ones are met even if you are no longer around to meet them. In this blog, we’ll explore why estate planning is not just for the wealthy or elderly, but a vital tool for every young family striving to secure their financial future and protect their legacy.

1. Guardianship For Minor Children

For young families with children under 18, choosing the individual(s) who will care for them in the event that both parents pass away is perhaps the most emotional and challenging aspect of estate planning. While it’s heartbreaking to consider a future where you don’t get to watch your children grow up and they don’t have you there to raise them, the reality is that if you don’t make this important decision ahead of time, the court will do it for you. To ensure that someone you don’t approve of is appointed to be your kids’ guardian, you must make the time to make your wishes explicitly known. No one knows your kids better than you, so an issue this significant shouldn’t be left up in the air.

Estate planning is also the best way to protect your assets owned by your young family. This includes all of your money, bank accounts, investments, real estate, and personal belongings. Once again, if you do not take the time to create a plan – through tools such as a will or trust – for how your assets should be distributed upon your death, the court will do it for you. Those assets will also be locked up in probate for months and depleted by attorney fees, court costs, and appraisals the entire time. 

If you have young children, you would probably want your assets to be used to pay for all the expenses involved in their upbringing if you were to pass away. However, the court may be the one to ultimately decide how your wealth is managed until they turn 18. This opens the door to too many potential pitfalls, the largest of which being that those funds might be needed to cover their education, housing, food, and medical care long before that time. Working with a skilled attorney to set up a special trust which ensures your money would directly benefit your children alone is the best way to protect your assets for this purpose. 

Many young families may feel like they are living paycheck to paycheck, or that even if they feel secure financially that they are not “rich” enough to think about an estate plan or trust just yet. However, estate planning isn’t just for the rich! Any family should use these tools to protect the money they do have from being lost if a tragic event occurs. 

To expand on an earlier point, lack of estate planning will also land your assets in probate, which is a time-consuming, expensive, and complicated court proceeding. One of your relatives will likely be appointed as representative, and all of the stressful responsibilities of probate will fall on them. They may struggle to follow through with your wishes, because you never took the time to put them down on paper through a will or trust. Trust us, if you are able to keep your assets out of probate, you should, and the most effective way to do this is through the combination of a will and trust as part of your comprehensive estate plan. 

Another vital component of your estate plan is your advance directive, which is sometimes referred to as your living will. This document is where you get to make your medical care preferences known, such as what treatments or artificial forms of life support you would and would not like to be subjected to. For example, you may specify that you do not want to be resuscitated, intubated, or be an organ donor. 

This document is referenced if you are involved in an accident or fall ill and are unable to speak for yourself. It ensures that you are able to preserve your bodily autonomy, as well as protects your loved ones from having to make those decisions themselves without knowing for certain what you would have wanted. 

In the event that you do become incapacitated, someone would need to manage your finances (such as your mortgage, bills, and other obligations) during that time. The most effective way to prepare for this is to include power of attorney as part of your estate plan. There are many different types of power of attorney, but when it comes to financial managements, durable power of attorney for finances, general power of attorney, limited power of attorney, or springing power of attorney would be most effective. 

When you grant power of attorney, you authorize a trusted individual to make legal and financial decisions on your behalf. You can set the terms for how it is able to be used based on your goals, such as the duration it is valid, whether it remains in effect if you become mentally incompetent, and more. 

Young Families In California Can Trust The Hayes Law Firm To Give Them Peace Of Mind For The Future

We know how sensitive and oftentimes, disorienting, estate planning can be, especially for young families who have their whole life ahead of them. We are dedicated to simplifying the process as much as possible, and ensuring your experience is a positive one that helps you move forward with confidence! Some of the advantages of working with our firm are free unlimited telephone support, free regular legacy and estate plan checkups, free client seminars, and more. Call today to schedule your free consultation with a member of our team and discover your next steps. 

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Natalie Salgado

Natalie joined the Hayes Law Firm as a Paralegal and Notary Public in August 2014. She takes pleasure in getting to know the clients so she can tailor the estate planning process to fit their needs Read More!

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