Estate planning is such an important thing to do, but because it is so often misunderstood, many people put it off or make false assumptions that leave those they love most unprotected. Common misconceptions – like the belief that estate planning is only for the wealthy or the elderly – can create serious problems down the road. That’s why we’re here to set the record straight and help you recognize the most common misconceptions about estate planning!
Whether or not you consider yourself to be wealthy, taking the time to understand why estate planning is so important for your family and for you can help ensure that your wishes are honored and that those you love will be taken care of. In this blog, we’ll debunk some of the most common misconceptions about estate planning and explain why it’s essential for everyone, regardless of age or economic status.
Misconception #1: “Estate Planning Is Only For The Wealthy”
Estate planning is for those of all ranges of wealth, because its purpose isn’t solely financial. But even if it was, the money and property you worked hard to earn throughout your life is worth protecting, no matter the amount!
You probably want that money to stay in your family rather than to simply be redirected back to the government, because that is what will likely happen if you don’t take the time to create a legitimate plan for the money you leave behind. Or maybe you have dreams of one day donating some or all of your wealth to a charitable cause that is dear to your heart. Regardless, it’s your money, so you should be the one deciding where it goes when you pass away.
But, as we’ve already covered, estate plans are not purely about finances. They also allow you to make your wishes known when it comes to issues like incapacitation and medical care.
Misconception #2: “A Will Takes Care Of Everything”
While a will is a very important estate planning tool to have, it only has the power to accomplish so much. Wills are much more effective when they are utilized as a part of a more comprehensive estate plan that includes a trust (or a combination of several trusts). Having a will alone will not keep your assets out of probate, which, if you are unaware, is a very long, expensive, and complicated court-supervised process that must happen before your assets can be distributed.
Because trusts are separate financial entities which hold your assets, when used in tandem with a will, they allow for a much faster distribution to your heirs. Moreover, your wealth will be protected from the court costs and legal fees that probate brings, which can equate to as much as tens of thousands of dollars.
Additionally, some sources of wealth pass outside of a will, such as retirement accounts and life insurance policies. So, if you only have a will, you aren’t as protected as you think!
Misconception #3: “I’m Too Young To Need An Estate Plan”
People of all ages need to have estate plans for many distinct reasons. For one, if you are a parent of young children, you likely want to ensure they will be cared for in the event that tragedy strikes, and you are no longer able to care for them yourself. With an estate plan, you can name guardians for your children, which can often be an emotionally difficult decision.
However, if you don’t take the time to do so, the court – who doesn’t know your children or your parenting values – will be the one to decide. You should be the only one making decisions about the future of your children. An estate plan also allows you to plan for their financial future to ensure their needs are met, whether you are in the picture or not.
Secondly, tragedy can strike anyone at any age. When your estate plan includes advance directives (or a living will), you get to have a say in the medical treatment you are subjected to, even if you lose your ability to speak for yourself. This way, you can maintain your dignity and bodily autonomy.
Finally, as already iterated, those of all ages have the right to protect their money and property, and make the ultimate decisions about what happens to it when you pass away. Therefore, no one with money, property, or minor children is too young to need an estate plan!
Misconception #4: “You Can Set It And Forget It”
One of the biggest mistakes a person can make with their estate plan is not regularly reviewing and revising it. Life changes happen all the time, whether it be a divorce, the birth of a child or grandchild, a death in the family, a falling out, or something else. So, it is important to remember to update your estate plan to reflect those changes. You are also allowed to change your mind about things in your estate plan if your priorities and opinions happen to shift. So, taking the time to make sure your estate plan reflects your most current wishes is critical to those wishes being honored.
Misconception #5: “My Family Will Handle Things After You’re Gone”
Choosing not to create an estate plan because you are under the impression that your family can figure things out after you pass is not only wrong, but also a little selfish.
Settling an estate is an incredibly long, expensive, and arduous process when the owner left no directions for what should happen to it. So yes, technically your family will have to handle things if you pass on, but this will bring an immense amount of stress to their lives, all while they are grieving your loss.
Another issue is that, with no tangible evidence of your wishes, your loved ones may have disagreements about what they think you would have wanted, leading to disputes among your family. Disputes like these can make the probate process even longer, even more expensive, and even more arduous than it already is.
Creating an estate plan is a gracious thing to do for your family!
Misconception #6: “I Can DIY My Estate Plan”
The concept of “DIY” estate planning has gained popularity in recent years. There are many online markets that essentially allow you to download and complete your own estate planning documents. However, what these companies don’t tell their consumers is that each state’s estate planning laws are unique, and the resources they are selling are often too general to be legally compliant with those laws.
So, a person can think they are protected by an estate plan they got from the internet, but after they pass, their family finds out that a judge has ruled that estate plan legally invalid, making it as if they never had an estate plan at all. This could be incredibly shocking and devastating to deal with in the midst of mourning.
Working with an attorney offers more advantages than just legal compliance (though that is vital!). An attorney who has a fair amount of prior experience and skill can customize an estate plan to your unique needs, even if you aren’t sure what those are yet. By having a conversation with you about your priorities and goals, they can build a personalized plan that will capitalize on your personal and financial circumstances, making it the most effective for you and your family.
Hayes Law Firm Can Help You Protect Your Life And Legacy. Call Today!
Even if you have fallen victim to one of these misconceptions, it’s not too late to take action! The right time to make an estate plan is now! Our lead attorney, William Hayes, has over 40 years of estate planning experience and is passionate about helping California families plan for the future. Call today to book your free consultation and learn more about how we can serve you!
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