Top Things To Do After the Death of a Loved One

Top Things To Do After the Death of a Loved One

If you’ve discussed end-of-life plans with nurses and counselors who’ve encouraged you and your family to deal with arrangements, you are one of the lucky ones. Unfortunately, when grieving a loss, some folks, on top of coming to terms with a loved one’s death, face aides who can’t legally declare your parent’s death, calling 911, hosting emergency personnel and dealing with police investigating a potential crime — elder abuse. Only when paramedics arrive can the body be removed and resuscitation attempts stopped. 

Keep a sad eventuality from becoming more painful:

1. Get a legal pronouncement of death. How to do so depends on whether the person dies at home, as opposed to an institution such as a hospital or hospice. If a doctor isn’t present, you’ll have to contact someone and may need to call 911. If your loved one has a “do not resuscitate” document, the paramedics won’t start emergency procedures. They will take your loved one to an emergency room for a doctor to make the declaration. In most situations, a doctor is needed to pronounce death. 
2. You may have to arrange for transportation of the body. If death has been pronounced and no autopsy is needed, a mortuary can pick up your loved one, and must first provide pricing over the phone. You may want transportation to a crematorium.
3. Check the deceased’s driver’s license to see whether he or she was an organ donor. Because organs can degrade quickly, this is a priority.
4. Make sure a doctor or county coroner has been notified.
5. Call close family and friends and ask them to call other more far-flung relatives.
6. You may need to have conversations with dependents. You may need to decide what to do with your loved one’s pets.
7. If your deceased relative or friend was working, you can call the employer and request information about benefits and any pay due. Ask whether there was a life insurance policy through the company. 

In a few days after death:

• Arrange for the funeral and burial or cremation. This may entail a search of the decedent’s documents to see whether a prepaid burial plan exists. Go with a family member or friend to the mortuary. Prepare an obituary.
• If your loved one served in the military or belonged to a fraternal or religious group, contact the organization. It may have burial benefits or conduct funeral services.
• Ask a friend or relative to keep an eye on the person’s home, answer the phone, collect mail, throw food out and water plants.
• Create a memorial page online — most funeral homes offer this option and can help you do this.
• Consider the purchase of a casket or urn. Caskets can be very expensive, so it may be a good idea to have a friend along as the “voice of reason,” so the recently bereaved don’t buy a needlessly costly one in the throes of grief.

Within 10 days after death:

1. Take the will to the appropriate country or city office to have it accepted for probate.
2. If necessary, the estate’s executor should open a bank account for the deceased’s estate.
3. Contact a trust and estates attorney to learn how to transfer assets and assist with probate issues.
4. Ask police to periodically check the deceased’s house, if it is vacant.
5. Contact an accountant or tax preparer to see whether an estate-tax return or final income tax return should be filed.
6. Check in with Social Security and such other agencies as Veterans Affairs about benefits, to stop payments and to ask about applicable survivor benefits.

These are details we’d much rather never have to deal with, but it’s better to be informed. 

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As an attorney in private practice in Los Angeles County, California William Hayes provides extensive estate and tax planning services to individuals and businesses in Los Angeles, Pasadena, Glendale, Burbank and surrounding communities. Attorney Hayes’ primary focus is to help clients avoid probate, protect their assets, and provide for the security of their loved ones with a well-crafted estate plan. He believes in giving each client the time needed to explain his or her needs and wishes and then dedicates his efforts toward making the client’s desires clear in their final estate plan.

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